DAY 1: YOU
Dominant, submissive or switch? List the parts of BDSM that get your juices flowing, what interests you the most? Basically define your kinky nature.
I am a masochist. I am a submissive. I am also a sadist. The one thing I am not, is a dominant.
I have been a masochist since I was a little girl picking at my scabs and cutting myself with sharp pieces of plastic. I have been a submissive since I met my first partner. And I first noticed my sadistic nature when I cut a young girl who was tied up for my master and she broke into pure pain-tears.
The facets of BDSM that get my “juices” running are pain, humiliation, bondage, orgasm control, water-sports, objectification.. I feel this question is a bit too open-ended to get a complete answer.
My kinky nature, which I believe is a product of genes more than lifestyle, is not the my “other” face. I am not a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde product. My position as someone’s slave runs under my skin, all over my body, all the time. It is a factor in everything I say, everything I do and in who I am.
The sort of person I am can indicate what sort of submissive I am and the sort of submissive I am adds up to the person I am.
(I’m not sure I can actually go 30 days answering questions, I’d much rather answer them all today)